When Saying No Feels Impossible

boundaries saying no May 14, 2026
 
 
Today's episode is called When saying No Feels Impossible.
It is our fourth in the series on how to set Christ like boundaries without feeling guilty.
 
Years ago I had a client who was a grandma and she was the grandma to a sweet little nine month old baby girl and the mother was her stepdaughter.
The mother of this child struggled.
She struggled with following through on responsibility.
She struggled with holding a job.

 

She liked partying on the weekends and grandma really enjoyed taking care of the baby.
However, she found herself all of the time taking care of this baby randomly.
Sometimes the mom would leave the baby overnight without really expressing when she was coming to pick it up.

 

So she had no idea how long she's going to have the baby, if it's going to be overnight, if it was going to be the whole weekend and she was just babysitting this baby all the time.
Sometimes she would have her own plans and her own things that she was working on.
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Why God Says It's Okay to Say No

 

Hi, I'm Julie Hawkes. Welcome to The Laws of Peace, where you will learn how to understand and apply God's laws in simple ways so that you can take small steps to create big changes and miracles and become the person you are always meant to be.

 
 The answers are in the scriptures. Let me show you how to find them. Today's episode is called Why God Says It's Okay to Say No.
 
 We are talking about the law of giving and receiving this month, and it has three parts. The first part states that you cannot give what you do not have. And it sounds so logical, like I cannot give you chocolate if I do not have chocolate.
 
 And yet we give from a place of burnout. We give from a place of being depleted and exhausted and stressed out, and we just give and give and give and give. But why do we do that?
 
 Why don't we say no? I have a few ideas. We may feel guilty when we say no.
 
 We don't want to disappoint or let other people down. People might be angry if we say no. And isn't char...
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